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Combating Stress: You Have Power!

September 2, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

“Calling Dr. Howard, Dr. Fine, Dr. Howard”

The hospital loudspeaker blared away while the three doctors ran through the hospital with patient’s lives on the line. Mayhem everywhere. Fortunately, it was just a Three Stooges movie short. Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk.

But I remember experiencing those types of days in real life (although with slightly less pies flying through the air). Working for 20-plus hours and then just getting to sleep right before being called for a code blue and have to run straight from bed to a patient’s room to perform CPR with a life on the line. Trying to save patients who are septic, throwing up blood, having a heart attack, a stroke, or pneumonia, and all of that on the same day (I really hate Mondays).

Yes, I think being a doctor is stressful. A soldier in wartime is probably the most stressful occupation, but law enforcement, firefighters, and airline pilots would also rank high. But all jobs can be stressful: all it takes is a hard boss, demanding customers or a troublesome coworker. However, the level of stress can be greatly influenced by how we perceive and manage it.

There are several suggestions to lower stress levels:

Prayer and meditation
Exercise. Target 30-60 minutes a day, most days of the week
Relaxing music, most likely not something from Metallica
Hobbies and crafts. One idea is adult coloring books. Be careful with these, though, because someone recently gave me one of these to do and I got more stressed out when I realized there were no numbers to tell me what colors to use (like they have in the kids coloring books)
Try and get a good night’s sleep
Massage and warm baths
Don’t turn to alcohol and street drugs. Any perceived short term benefit will be offset by worsened problems down the line.
Talk to family, friends, a counselor or a clergy member
Forgiveness. If you hold anger or a grudge towards someone, then find a way to forgive them. It will benefit you (by lowering your internal stress levels) far more than whoever you are forgiving. For instance, injured patients who have a worker’s compensation claim or lawsuit against whoever injured them seem to not recover as well. I don’t think this is because the patient is ‘faking it’ or ‘malingering’, but rather because of increased stress over the issue. Of note, I did not originate this idea. It’s based on what other physicians have told me of their observations.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT- see Blogs 8 and 9). If you have any negative self-talk, then you need to stop it as it only ramps up your stress levels. In fact, negative self-talk may be a big source of your stress.
Find short term goals. It helps you get through stressful times. There have been plenty of tough days where the idea grows in my mind that I can’t manage to do this for the next ‘X’ number of years. At these times I tell myself that I just need to get through that day and then I can go home and relax a bit. Thirty years later I’m still going strong.
Don’t forget to find humor in the situation….. “Calling Dr. Howard, Dr. Fine, Dr. Howard”. Don’t forget to duck when things are flying at you, and don’t forget to block when you see a two-finger eye poke coming your way. Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk.

Next time: Using the concepts of attitude, focus, and perspective to control stress.

Stress Avoidance

August 22, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

Life is inherently stressful. But is there anything we can do to reduce stress? We cannot completely eliminate stress, but we can reduce it as well as improve our ability to handle whatever stress that we do have.

Careful planning can reduce potential stressful experiences. Consider the example in the last blog of being chased by a bear. This stress could be avoided by:

* Don’t go where bears hang out. Listen to your mom.

* If you are silly enough to go where the bears are, then lock up all your food so as not to attract them. Either that, or cook with lots of habaneros.

* If you hear bears, make lots of noise by rapping on pots and pans to scare them away. Actually, bears aren’t scared of anything, they just don’t like rap music.

Further planning can help you handle the stress when it occurs. For instance, check out what Ranger Bob says about bear encounters:

* Stand tall, strong, look brave and pray that the bear goes away.

* Don’t bother to run unless your name is Usain Bolt, or you have a slower friend with you.

* If the bear attacks, lie down on your stomach and play dead. But remember to put on a backpack first so that the bear has to chew its way through to you. Keep your smartphone in the backpack in hopes that the bear gets into a game of Pokemon Go.

* Forget Ranger Bob, pull out a big gun and shoot the bear.

Now this type of planning is clearly helpful if you live like Grizzly Adams, but the same concept can be applied to a more conventional lifestyle.

In general, you will tend to have a less stressful life by doing the following:

> Listening to your mom.

> Apply yourself in school.

> Seek a rewarding career.

> Strive to be financially comfortable, but avoid the trap of ‘keeping up with the Joneses’.

> Go to church, pray often, and put your faith in God.

> Be smart in your choice of spouse, as well as your friends.

>Exercise regularly, at least 30 minutes a day, most days of the week.

>Get married before you have kids. Work at staying married.

> Drive defensively.

> Don’t abuse alcohol or street drugs.

> Do the right thing.

Sometimes life stressors hit you despite your most careful planning. Sometimes you make mistakes and venture into bear country. As with the bear analogy, you should not beat yourself up, but rather look for a ‘Ranger Bob’ and develop a back-up plan. Have that back-up plan in mind before things go wrong.

Examples of a back-up plan can include insurance policies or a back-up career plan. However, some stressors are very unpredictable and harder to plan for. Examples might be a major illness or sudden trauma. A back-up plan can be developed for these medical episodes and it’s called a strong support system.

The support system is a combination of family, friends, community, and church family. You develop this support system by being a good, supportive member of that support system, not with the expectation of getting anything out of it, but because it’s the right thing to do…

It was a beautiful September evening, and I had gone out to start the grill for a wonderful dinner that Caryl (my wife) had planned for my sister, Nancy, who was visiting. A mishap with an overfilled propane tank quickly changed the dinner plans. The resulting propane fire set me on fire and torched the hair and skin off my face, arms, hands, and knees. It actually set my head on fire, and in the process of rolling on the ground to put out the fire, I managed to knock a disc out in my neck, which caused subsequent nerve damage. I eventually had to spend some time in the burn ward to take the dead skin off. I also had to have neck surgery with a bone graft, plate and screws to repair the damaged nerve.

Needless to say, this was perhaps the most stressful event in my life (probably even worse than that time I took the kids grocery shopping). Immediately after putting the fire out on my head, I knew I needed to develop a back-up plan. The planned great dinner was ruined, and I knew what my back-up plan needed to be: I went into the house with my face all charred and reported to Caryl that dinner was going to be a little late. She immediately thought I must be delirious, called the ambulance and the rest was history.

The pain was tremendous, but the stress was greatly reduced by my support system. Caryl and Nancy took care of needed dressing changes. Great friends and community support helped by preparing food and doing some chores. I can only be forever grateful.

Next time we’ll look at more ways to reduce stress when it happens.

Stress

August 6, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

Today you decided to take a nice walk in the forest after you got home from work. It’s a good way to unwind after a long day. As you walk down the trail, enjoying the beauty around you, you hear some strange rattling in the nearby bushes. You step closer to see what’s causing it, and suddenly realize it’s a mama grizzly and her cub. She lets out a loud roar. Before you have time to even think, you’re darting 20 feet in the opposite direction. This is the most stress you’ve ever felt in your life. But what is stress?

Stress is our reaction to a force or event that adversely affects us. We can be stressed by a wide variety of potential forces. Some examples:

* Being chased by a bear. (I chose a bear here because bears are the funniest animal exceeding even the lobster. Hopefully choosing a funny bear will make this blog less scary for you, and less likely to stress you out. You can even imagine it’s a teddy bear if that helps.)

* Personal illness or injury.

* Illness or death of a family member or friend.

* Being robbed or assaulted. (Also, I’m told robbing or assaulting someone is also stressful.)

* Getting a new job, or promotion.

* Birth of a child. (Especially Sam)

* A troublesome boss, coworker, or employee.

* Moving place of residence, church, or school.

* A graduation or retirement.

* A new relationship or breakup of a relationship.

* Thinking about who our next president might be. Where’s that bear when you need it?

* Financial or legal problems.

* Winning the lottery. Yes, people who win the lottery tend to get stressed out and not do well.

* Going to see the doctor, or in my case, going to see the patient.

* Loss of a pet.

* A child leaving home. (Unless it’s Sam)

* Being a caregiver.

* Preparing for a vacation, reunion, or party.

* Performing a task. Deadlines. Writing a blog.

We can spend all day thinking of stressors, but as you can see, not all stressors are bad, but they still put stress on us because we have to adjust to a new situation. Stress can even be a good thing by helping us to escape a bad situation, like being chased by a bear.

When put under stress, our bodies undergo changes which can be good and even improve our chance of survival. The classic example of this is the ‘fight or flight’ response which happens when you are being chased by a bear. Under these stressful circumstances, your body’s sympathetic nervous system releases adrenaline causing your heart rate to increase, you’ll breathe faster, muscles will tense up and receive more oxygen, and the liver will release stored up energy (in the form of fatty acids and glycogen). All of this is to help you be more alert and run faster, or even fight the bear (don’t take it personally, but I have $50 on the bear). Other changes also occur…for instance our blood will clot easier so we don’t bleed as much and endorphins are released which decrease pain, and that’s important for when the bear catches us.

A few other changes accompany the ‘fight or flight’ response. For instance: the pupils dilate (making our eyes look big), hairs on the skin stand up, sweating, and relaxation of the urinary bladder sphincter muscle – which may cause you to wet yourself. This is important so that the bear can see that you’re really scared and may have pity on you and let you go, which is your last chance for survival when a bear is chasing you.

The ‘fight or flight’ response is a short term response to stress. There are numerous long term responses to stress which are harmful. They include1:

* Release of cortisol into the blood stream which weakens the immune system and makes us more predisposed to illness.

* Increased blood pressure and predisposition to arrhythmia, coronary disease, and heart failure.

* Increased headache, neck, shoulder, and back pain.

* Worsened irritable bowel and acid reflux digestive problems.

* Worsened asthma and chronic bronchitis.

* Dysfunction of the reproductive system such as infertility, erectile dysfunction, and painful menstrual cycles.

* Worsened acne and psoriasis.

* Elevated blood sugars in diabetics.

* Psychological effects such as irritability, anger, depression, anxiety, fatigue, sleep problems.

The big problem with chronic stress is that life itself is inherently stressful. The above list of potential life stressors are almost all typical life events (except for being chased by a bear and winning the lottery). In fact, I have personally experienced almost all of them. However, many of these stressors are internally generated…in other words; the stress is increased by how you deal with the problem. This gives us a chance to reduce stress, which is our goal.

Next time: Ways to decrease stress

1. Stress Management – Effects of stress, Web MD, 2016.

Great + Attitude = Gratitude

June 6, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire 2 Comments

Gratitude can be really painful. Kind of like Rocky Balboa taking a punch. It may hurt a lot in the short run, but it will make you strong enough to win by the next fight.

Recently, our daughter, Lauren, went on a trip to Africa with her college class. More specifically, they went to Uganda, Kenya, and Tanzania. Much of the time that she was over there, they were in a technologically dark area, with no cell phone access and only able to text us infrequently. One of the first text messages that we received was of her visit to a poor school. It turned out that the school managed to teach and take care of kids for $50/month. Lauren texted us that she was so moved that she felt called to donate $100 to the school. Ouch! I’m grateful that we raised a caring daughter, but that was my $100 that she donated. By the time we saw the text, she was in another dark zone with no chance for us to respond.

Next week was a time of worry. Without the inability to contact Lauren, we had no idea if she was alive or dead. We finally received another text saying that she was called to give away her shoes, and by the way, we need to get her some new running shoes. Oh boy, another chance to be grateful for a generous daughter. I began to wonder if she was going to come home broke and naked. Me broke and her naked.

It was great three weeks later when she finally arrived home. My bank account at last felt a little more secure. But it was not the end of my gratitude when she told us details of her trip. It rhino involved:

Standing 15 feet from a wild white rhino
Her raft turning over in class 5 rapids on the Nile river
Bungee jumping 140 feet over the Nile river

This time I was grateful that I didn’t know any of this craziness in advance or I wouldn’t have let her go.

All kidding aside, gratitude is one of the most important tools that we have to help us through the physical and emotional turmoil of life. Dr. Robert Emmons1, who was one of my son’s professors at UC Davis, is perhaps the world’s leading expert on the benefits of gratitude, which includes:

Stronger immune system
Lowered pain levels
Better sleep
Lower blood pressure
More alertness
More positive emotions (happiness, joy, optimism, etc.)
More social, outgoing, and less loneliness
More forgiveness
More helpful

More generosity (I learned that the hard way from Lauren’s trip to Africa)
Decreases negative emotions such as envy, regret, and depression
More stress resistant – i.e. quicker recovery
Improved self-worth

Personally, I would attest to gratitude making me more stress resistant. I have had a series of stressful events in my life for which I have found a jka way to give gratitude. I have used them to thank God for the experiences that have made me a stronger and hopefully better person. Some examples:

I frequently had to put in over 100 hour work weeks going through medical school and residency, which was a 7 year period. These were times that were mentally grueling and physically exhausting from staying up 24 and even 36 hours at times. Marines go through ‘boot camp’ to prepare themselves for the battlefield. I think of medical school and residency as ‘mental boot camp’ to prepare for future work. For that strengthening, I am grateful.
In 2004, I was in a propane fire which took the skin off my face, arms, hands and knees. It earned me a short stint in the burn ward for debridement (having the burnt skin taken off). In the process of putting out the fire, I knocked a disc out in my neck which caused nerve damage and severe loss of strength in my arm. This required bone graft surgery with plate and screws in my neck. I’m grateful for this experience for 2 reasons. First, prior to the fire, my fear was to be a burn ward patient as I saw that as the worst part of the hospital to be. I still respect the combination of propane and oxygen, but I no longer fear being a burn ward patient. Been there, done that, and could do it again if I had to (but please God, don’t make me have to). Second, the fire gave me experience in personally handling extreme pain. In fact, the following year I had gallbladder surgery and did not need to take pain medications.
Both of my parents passed from cancer. They were both hospice patients, and I was executor for my dad’s will. While I’m obviously not grateful that they died, I am grateful that the experience gave me insight and knowledge that I utilized in writing Live, Love, and Let Go, which has helped many people.

ALiForeman The benefits of gratitude are indeed reaped by the grateful person. I heard another example of this today. Mohammed Ali died yesterday and his friend and former opponent, George Foreman, was being interviewed. In 1974, Ali beat Foreman, which cost Foreman his title. Foreman could have been bitter over this, but instead he was grateful to Ali. Foreman said he used the fight to tell stories and generate interest in his later ministry work.

I suspect Foreman’s ‘attitude of gratitude’ is benefitting him today. Foreman and Ali had similar boxing careers and yet Ali developed brain damage felt secondary to repeated head blows. To my knowledge, Foreman has been spared. In an earlier blog, I discussed how nuns with a positive attitude were spared from Alzheimer’s. One can speculate that Foreman’s attitude is similarly sparing him.

Tough times are indeed difficult. A time of grieving, pain, frustration is appropriate. snuggie-fleece-blanket-with-sleeves-[2]-218-p However, I do encourage you to find something to be grateful for. No matter how bad the situation is, there must be something good about it (i.e. it could always be worse). Give thanks. It could be for a cup of water, a warm blanket, food, a home, friends, family, and of course the saving grace of Jesus. Remember, a hundred years from now, when we are in heaven, all physical and emotional wounds will be healed. For that, we can be grateful.

Emmons, Robert, ‘Why Gratitude is Good’, Greater Good, University of California, Berkeley, November 16, 2010.

Faith and Health

April 2, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

In the last blog, we looked at the benefits of faith on physical health. Now I’d like to turn to the interaction of faith and mental health.

A number of studies have looked at the benefits of faith on mental health. These studies are generally examining people who attend church on a fairly regular and weekly basis. A summary of these mental health benefits is listed below: faith 11

* Better social support1

* Better insight to medical condition and more compliant with medication2

* Lower rates of suicide3

* Improved coping skills4

* Protection against depression5

* More able to fight depression4

* Praying for someone else can benefit relationships6

* High religious involvement in elderly lowered depression and disability7

* Higher self-esteem and more positive attitude towards life8

* More hopeful of future4

* Less likely to engage in domestic violent behavior9

* Trust in God improves positive outlook9

These various benefits can be summed up by stating that regular church attenders are generally happier. This is not to say that non-believers are unhappy or that all faith focused people are happy, but on average, church going folk tends to be happier.

One of the greatest health problems in the US is depression. The lifetime incidence of major depression is about 29%.10 Depression is detrimental to both the individual and society: it damages the brain, heart, weakens the immune system, shortens lifespans, causes sleep disturbance, memory and concentration problems, increases disability, causes decreased work/school performance, and causes social and family withdrawals.

Depression can be treated with counselling and medication, but adding a reliance on one’s faith not only protects against depression, but it can help us fight it and guard against suicide.

D faith and fitness 5 epression is one of the most common complaints that I see in my general internal medicine practice. Some of these patients are in a very dark mood with a variety of problems such as chronic pain, debility, job problems, financial problems, loss of a loved one, social isolation, and suffered physical and verbal abuse. Time and time again I’ve heard people tell me that it is their faith that keeps them afloat; it is their faith that has helped them endure and fight off any suicidal thoughts.

So faith helps support good mental health. But on the flip side, better mental health can help build faith. It works like this:

If our mental health is better, then we will be happier. As a result, we also have more positive attitude and thoughts. These positive thoughts lead to positive actions, which includes more prayer that gives thanks and gratitude towards God. Giving gratitude is one of the most positive, uplifting things that we do. Being positive helps us realize the works of God in our lives, which strengthens our faith.

This interaction is exemplified in the saying of St. Augustine:

“Faith is to believe what you do not see… the reward of this faith is to see what you believe.”

In other words, looking for the effects of God in our lives helps us to see these mini-miracles. There can be nothing more up-lifting to build both faith and good mental health. Think about it.

Next time we’ll take a look at love and health.

1. Strawbridge, W., et al, ‘Frequent attendance at religious services and mortality over 28 years.’ Am J Public Health 1997, Jun; 87(6): 957-61.

2. Kirov, G., et al, ‘Religious faith after psychotic illness.’ Psychopathology 1998; 31:234-245.

3. Pelham, Brett and Zsolt, Nyiri, ‘In more religious countries, lower suicide rates,’ World, July 3, 2008. www.gallup.com

4. Bunn, Alex and Randall, David, ‘Health Benefits of Christian Faith’, Christian Medical Fellowship, 2011. www.cmf.org.uk

5. Blazer, Dan, ‘Religion/spirituality and Depression: What can we learn from empirical studies?’, Am Journal of Psychiatry, Sept 1, 2011, p. 10-12.

6. Florida State University, ‘Power of Prayer: Study finds prayer can lead to cooperation, forgiveness in relationships.’ Science Daily. May 14, 2013

7. Kaplan, Daniel B. and Berkman, Barbara J., ‘Religion and Spirituality in the Elderly.’ Merck Manual. July 2013.

8. Smith, Christian and Faris, Robert, ‘Religion and the Life Attitudes and self-images of American Adolescents,’ Research Report of the National Study of Youth and Religion, Number 2, 2002.

9. Fagan, Patrick F. ‘Why religion matters even more: The impact of religious practice on social stability.’ Heritage Foundation, December 18, 2006.

10. Kessler, RC et al. ‘Twelve-month and lifetime prevalence and lifetime morbid risk of anxiety and mood disorders in the United States.’ Int J Methods Psychiatry Res. 2012. Sept 21(3): 169-84.

Faith – Love – Health

March 24, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

There Are Three important aspects of life that we tend to seek and develop separately. However, they are synergistically linked – improvements in one area can help us in the other areas as well.

The next several blogs will explore faith, love, and health and their interrelationships.

Faith has benefits on both our physical and mental health. Let’s start with some of the physical benefits:

Increased life expectancy by up to 2-8 years ¹
Reduced incidence of meningitis²
Reduced alcohol abuse³
Reduced drug abuse⁴
Involvement in religion (prayer and attending church) lowers blood pressure⁵
Better quality of life in terminal cancer patients⁶
Decrease in coronary disease (heart attacks)⁷
Lower rates of smoking⁸
Lower rates of teenage pregnancy ⁹

The majority of these studies¹⁰ look at the benefits of regular religious attendance, which can be defined as weekly blog Church church visits. So, from a pure numbers standpoint, is going to church worth it? Well, if you go to church routinely, then let’s assume you spend 2 hours every week, for 50 weeks a year gives us 100 hours a year spent on church services (this could be more if your clergy is extremely long-winded). If the average life is about 80 years, then 80 times 100 gives us 8000 hours over a lifetime as a ballpark figure for us to spend going to church. There are 8760 actual hours in a year. That means that if you attend church regularly, then you spend about a year of your life going to church.

Therefore, if we spend a year of our life going to church, and as a result we gain an extra 2-8 years of life expectancy, then from a pure numbers standpoint, going to church was worth it. If this had been an investment of money, and the result doubled your investment, then most of us would make that investment.

Another way of examining this is to compare church attendance to other health improvement options, such as lowering cholesterol, blood pressure, and exercise. Various studies have shown that lowering cholesterol, blood pressure, and exercise increases life expectancy by months to a few years – on par with regular church attendance. If we look at potential cancer treatments, we are generally happy with any treatment that gives us this much added time. I’ve never prescribed going to church every week, but perhaps I should start (I just have to double check that it’s FDA approved!) blog Spirituality-and-Health-Link

While the lifestyle benefits, such as decreased substance abuse, can be accomplished without religion, this wouldn’t explain the improved quality of life for cancer patients. Future blogs will demonstrate other benefits that are not just attributable to lifestyle. There’s also nothing wrong with how church encourages better lifestyles. We have to admit that we are people, and people clearly do better with some discipline in our lives:

-Armies are much better if they are disciplined

-Schools run much better if they have discipline

-Workplaces are more successful if they have some discipline

God gave the Jewish people laws to follow putting discipline in their lives. Their history teaches us that they always did better when they maintained that discipline. We no longer follow all of the Jewish laws (except for the 10 commandments-hopefully) but we certainly can argue that God gave us the church, and attending church puts some discipline in our lives, benefitting us.

Church attendance helps us maintain healthy lifestyles, but it also helps us recover from unhealthy lifestyles. For instance, in regards to drug abuse, we should look at the program Teen Challenge, which treats teenage and adult drug addicts.

Teen Challenge is a faith based program geared to put Christ into the life of the addict. Their success rate has been reported as 86%¹⁰, a phenomenal number as addiction is extremely difficult to overcome (typical success rates blog 98125386(1) are less than 50%¹¹). Faith is key to improving not only the health, but also the quality of life of these people.

Finally, another aspect of religion that I’d like to briefly touch on is coping with pain.

Pain relief can come in one of two ways. First, we can pray for healing and we are healed. Probably many readers have either experienced such a miracle themselves or know someone who was healed in this way (or perhaps someone else prayed over them which resulted in healing). Not only is such an event health-giving but it is truly faith building as well. If you don’t know of an example, I encourage you to ask around at your church and I’ll bet you find someone who can inspire you.

The second way that pain can be relieved is by putting your mind in a spiritual place. If you focus your mind, thoughts, and prayers on God, your pain level will be lessened. I have experienced this on a personal level and discuss it in The Greatest Ordeal (soon to be released).

Next week, we will discuss the benefits of faith on mental health.

J. Robert Subrick, “The Life and Death Implications of Religious Subsidies: A Cross Country Analysis”, Dept. of Economics, James Madison University, October 2010.
Teresa Neumann, “Researchers find Huge Health Benefits in the Christian Faith”, May 2, 2011: Ariel R. Rey – The Christian Post.
John Gartner, David B. Larson , and George Allen, “Religious Commitment and Mental Health: A Review of the Empirical Literature”, Journal of Psychology and Theology, Vol. 19, Issue 1 (Spring 1991), pp.6-25.
Barbara R. Lorch and Robert H. Hughes, “Religion and Youth Substance Use”, Journal of Religion and Health, Vol. 24, No. 3 (Sept. 1985), pp.197 – 208.
Charlene Laino, “Spirituality May Help Blood Pressure: Study Shows People Who Engage in Religious Activities Have Lower Blood Pressure”, Web MD Health News, May 18, 2006.
Tracy Anne Balboni et. al, “Provision of Spiritual Care to Patients with Advanced Cancer: Associations with Medical Care and Quality of Life Near Death”, J. Clin Oncology, 2010, Jan 20:28(3):445-52.
E.L. Morris, “The Relationship of Spirituality to Coronary Heart Disease”, Altern. Ther Health Med, 2001, Sept. – Oct. 7(5):96-8.
Harold G. Koenig, et. al, “The Relationship Between Religious Activities and Cigarette Smoking in Older Adults”, Journal of Gerontology: Medical Sciences, Vol. 53A, Issue 6 (Nov. 1998), pp M 426-434.
Michael J. Donahue, “Aggregate Religiousness and Teenage Fertility Revisited: Reanalysis of Data from the Guttmacher Institute”, presented at the Annual Meeting of the Society for the Scientific Study of Religion, Chicago, October 30, 1988.
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Welcome to the Live, Love and Let Go Website and Blog!

February 29, 2016 by Dr. James Abshire Leave a Comment

It’s certainly a crazy world we live in, with tremendous changes in the last half century.

There are:

· Strange political characters on both the national and international stages

· Threats of global terrorism and potential chemical, biological and nuclear warfare

· Financial pressures

· Pressure to keep up with rapidly advancing technology

· Changes in social norms

The way we think, talk and act towards each other changed dramatically over the years. Case in point: Back at the beginning of the American Civil War, prisoners were handled by a ‘parole’ system. Prisoners were allowed to go back to their own side – they just had to promise not to go back to fight against their captors.

Guess what, men back then kept their word.

Now days, there has be a legal written contract for even the simplest of deals, and people still try and figure out ways to break the deal. On top of that, government rules and regulations seem to make everything more complicated.

The only reliable constant in our lives is God, and hopefully our faith in God.

This blog will discuss various aspects of building faith, as well as the advantages of having faith. Using faith, we will work on developing a positive attitude towards life. We will also look at keeping a proper and positive perspective on life.

As in the Live, Love and Let Go book, medical and practical knowledge will be given which can be used in conjunction with our faith to develop a positive approach to the gamut of end of life issues, as well as other difficult areas of our lives.

Please feel free to write in with:

· Stories

· Tips

· Questions

· Comments to Share

· Look for the positive and humor is always appreciated

Together, we can build a better way to help and support each other in tough times. The way we approach these issues in the best witness for our faith.

Blog postings will occur roughly once a week. Please share Live, Love and Let Go. The intent is to help as many as we can; it’s purely not for profit as all royalties go to charity.